Happily Ever After

Hey guys!!!! I haven't written in here in FOREVER. So much has happened in the last few months. The most exciting news is that I got MARRIED! Last year, I would've never though that I'd get married again especially after going through such a painful divorce. My faith in love has been restored!

My husband is my best friend. No really. We talk about everything, we play around all day and we support each other like childhood friends. He's probably the most kind and sincere person I know. I admire him and strive to be like him in those aspects. He keeps me grounded. No matter how much noteriety I get, he still sees me as Marchelle. We push each other to be greater. I understand how much work a relationship can be. We're constantly growing and maturing. 

I've learned that love is selfless. It's not 50/50, it's 100/100. It's not give and take....it's just give. Giving all of yourself including your weaknesses. That kind of vulnerability can be scary. You have to be able to be your most pure self. Sometimes we wear masks to protect ourselves. Your partner has learned and grown to love your outward layer. But what happens when the layers are peeled back? They don't know that person that you've been trying to hide. That was me. In this relationship, I decided to be my most true self from the beginining......the good, the bad and the not so pretty : )

I'm not a testament to fairytale love. I don't believe in it. I just believe that some people get lucky. The universe brings them together in the same place at the same time. We were just two lost souls drifting in the dark who happened to stumble across each other. 

 

Marchelle Tigner